Monday, February 25, 2013

A Bible-based Plea to "Keep Marriage Special" and Why I Think Christians Should Sign It


Recent decades have demonstrated the unhelpful and disappointing isolation of British Christians from bold, biblical commentary in the public square in what only amounts to an exhibition of the limp-wristed ineffectual chapel culture that has bred the current climate. It is time that we understand not only the priesthood of all believers, but recover a biblically robust view of, if you will, the prophethood of all believers: that we are to put away all lies, flattery, and deceit and are to, each one of us, “speak the truth with his neighbour, for we are members one of another” (Ephesians 4:25). This relates to civil as well as spiritual matters as John Gill, pastor of the Baptist Church that would after some moving around become the Metropolitan Tabernacle under Charles Haddon Spurgeon, explains:

“speak every man truth with his neighbour; both with respect to civil and religious affairs, in common conversation, in trade and business, and in all things relating to God and men: for we are members one of another; as men, are all of one blood, descended from one man, and so are related one to another; and as in civil society, belong to one body politic; and in a religious sense, members of the same mystical body, the church; of which Christ, who is the truth itself, is the head; and therefore should not attempt to deceive one another by lying, since there is such a near relation and close union of one to another.”

It is not as simple as just ‘tell people about Jesus’ as some have resigned themselves to in theory (I sometimes doubt if even that is lived out in practice). In Ecclesiastes 8, our English translations take verse 2 to mean something like “Keep the king's command”, which is often read “Obey the king’s command.” However, when I was studying the passage while preaching through the book, I found that it made much more sense in the whole scheme of verses 1-9 to go with a more wooden reading – something like, “Keep the mouth of the king”, with “keep” indicating protection more than obedience. If this is not completely off the mark, then we have in this verse a command to act as guards on any foolish thoughts, words, and decisions that might come from our political leaders. All of this needs to be interpreted Christologically of course, and held in balance with the very clear commission to go and make disciples, baptizing them and teaching them not only the way to Christ but the way of Christ. Nevertheless, we have in Ecclesiastes 8:1-9 a biblical basis for the Christian responsibility of social action in the public, dare I say, political sphere. It is protective (“Guard the mouth of the king”), it is patient, (“Be not hasty to go from his presence”), and it is prudent (“Do not take your stand in an evil cause” and “the wise heart will know the proper time and the just way”).

One way Christians have responded to the Government’s proposed Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Bill (currently under the scrutiny of the House of Commons Public Bill Committee before its third reading) is by signing petitions that defend the definition of marriage as the union of one man and one woman to the exclusion of all others till death parts them. The Coalition for Marriage petition, supported by the Christian Institute, CARE, Christian Concern, the Family Education Trust, and the Evangelical Alliance, and signed by 641,849 people has had the highest profile. While I am a signatory of that petition, and actively encouraged others to sign it as well, one quibble that I have with the arguments used by the Coalition are the predominance of pragmatic arguments that form their foundation. To be sure, some of these (the uniqueness of marriage, the profound consequences of redefining it, the right of people to freely take a stand for their beliefs and principles) are born out of a Christian mindset. The “no need to redefine marriage since we already have civil partnerships that provide the same rights” argument, however, is pure political pragmatism, and so wishy-washy it could almost be taken as an endorsement of civil partnerships. As a “Christian” coalition, I am not sure that it succeeds in lending a distinctively Christian voice to the debate – there are even gay opponents of the bill who are making similar arguments! I have however found a petition that I believe does provide such a voice.

 The Keep Marriage Special petition unashamedly links itself to Scripture in its statement:

“This petition calls upon HM Government to support and protect the uniqueness of marriage, for the good of all in society. It affirms the biblical teaching that marriage can only be between one man and one woman. Marriage cannot be redefined because it is not a human invention, but an institution ordained by God for the good of mankind. The Christian understanding of marriage is at the heart of family life, is good for children and is a vital part of our country’s heritage. We support all efforts to defend it. We therefore call upon HM Government not to legislate to permit same-sex marriage.”

Led by Viscount Brentford, and counting a number of politicians in its leadership and among its signatories, well respected and recognized Vice-Presidents and Trustees of the campaign include Michael Nazir-Ali (the former Bishop of Rochester), Geoff Thomas (Pastor, Alfred Place Baptist Church, Aberystwyth), Rico Tice (Associate Minister, All Souls, Langham Place and Co-author, Christianity Explored), and David Jackman (Former President, Proclamation Trust).

In a helpful piece entitled “Why KMS?” (http://www.keepmarriagespecial.org.uk/main/why-kms; read all of it – it is worth it!), the campaign says

“Christians have a legitimate and God-given role both in urging society to live by God’s laws and urging individuals to repent of their sin and turn to Jesus Christ as their only hope of salvation, forgiveness and eternal life. It is not in the best interests of society to enact ungodly legislation. A healthy society is a God-honouring society. Christians are acting for the good of society generally by urging it to uphold the God-given definition and institution of marriage. It would not be right for them to stay silent.”

In contrast to the license given to all sorts of things by the West’s liberal (including pseudo-conservative) politicians and their libertarian kinfolk, Romans 13 gives us a picture of government as an institution given by God to promote good and punish evil. It does so by making laws. Moral laws. So there is a sense, after all, in which government is designed to “legislate morality.” And that includes sexual morality. I believe the Keep Marriage Special campaign is a distinctively Christian, biblical effort at “guarding the mouth” of our leaders, enabling the believing individual in a small but potentially significant way to “speak the truth with his neighbour” so as to encourage the government to fulfil its God-given responsibilities.

It is true that wars are not won with petitions. But they are won with people. The time is here for believing men and women everywhere in this country to separate themselves from the inane dithering of fools on the fence and take a stand - a stand not based on party, politics, or popularity, but a stand on principle.

If you are a resident of the United Kingdom aged 16 years or over, you can sign the Keep Marriage Special petition by following this link:


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